I love lists y’all! Like I love them.
So here is a big list of my favorite lists.
(Please note that not all the lists will have five
things in them. Please forgive me in advance.)

My (early) 2023 Travel list
- LA
- Atlanta
- Mexico
- Home
- Miami

My Favorite Airports to despise
- O’Hare
- Hartsfield-Jackson
- Paris Charles de Gaulle
- Charlotte Douglas
- Sky Harbor

My aesthetic for the year:
- EXTRA accessories
- Full glam
- Big curly Hair
- Thicker eyebrows
- Nail Polish

Some Fragrance Suggestions:
- POISON GIRL – Dior
- ACQUA DI GIÒ – ARMANI
- Bulgari – Man
- Marc Jacobs – Daisy
- Tom Ford – Velvet Orchid

My Makeup Bag must Haves:
- Sephora Collection Make No Mistake Full Coverage Concealer in Allspice
- Chanel LES BEIGES Water-Fresh Tint
- Bobby Brown CRUSHED LIP COLOR in Telluride

How to be a Good Friend :
- Be Reliable
- Be Trustworthy
- Always Communicate
- Show Love

The only Movie Genres I deal in:
- Spy/ Espionage
- Gangster/Mob
- Action
- Romantic Comedy
- Harry Potter
- and of course Batman

Products I currently swear by:
- CeraVe Healing Ointment
- ORS Olive Oil Hair Lotion
- FENTY Fat Water Toner
- Africa’s Best Hair Mayonnaise
- RoC RETINOL CORREXION® Night Serum Capsules

Things I am focusing on right now:
- Intentional Contentment
- Wellness
- Finding and Creating Joy
- Helping others feel the same

Best Diss Tracks:
- Hit Em Up
- No Vaseline
- Back to Back
- Ether
- Lost Ones

My favorite Stores:
- Nordstrom/ Nordstrom Rack
- DSW
- Zara
- The H&M outside of Harrods (this one only)

More food that I miss:
- Breadwinners
- Pei Wei
- Fuel City Tacos
- My families Gumbo
- Velvet Taco

Things I’m Over:
- I hate COVID Quarantine. Now that doesn’t mean I’m not going to do my full 10 days. I just don’t like it.
- People being selfish for no reason. Have some empathy please. See #1.
- People that have no follow through. Just do what you said you would. Please.

Relationship Essentials:
- Our humor has to be compatible. (Read: Please have good meme game.)
- Keep me updated on your hair. I like that. I’ll keep you updated on my next style. It’s only fair.
- I have no problem with you being strange…but it has to be a good strange. Or at least my kind of strange.

Books I want to read next:
- The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid
- Nobody Knows the Trouble I’ve Seen by Inger Burnett-Zeigler
- The Bible (I am reading through it this year. Or at least trying. #wishmeluck)

Brands that I am obsessed with:
- Loewe
- Paris, Texas
- Versace (of course)
- miu miu
- Fear of God

Restaurants I can’t wait to eat at soon:
- Mi Cocina
- Chick-fil-A
- Pappadeaux Seafood Kitchen
- Volare Ristorante Italiano

My favorite Luxury SUVs:
- Alfa Romeo Stelvio
- Audi RS Q8
- Bentley Bentayga
- Lexus SUVs period
- Nissan Rogue forever

My Personal Wellness Schedule:
- Daily – Yoga or a Stretch Sequence
- Weekly – Beach/Park Day
- Monthly – Buy a silly or extraneous thing that makes you happy.
- Quarterly/Yearly – 2 Beach Vacations a year and at least one quick vacation a quarter.
- Bonus: Read at least one book a year. Focus on it especially when you need to take a step back into another world.

Things I have learned this year:
- Don’t be so rigid in your plans. Sometimes you plan to do a thing but another opportunity comes up and sometimes it is best – so do it.
- Wear the outfit you put together in your head. If you don’t, you will always wonder. Just do it.
- If you are working with someone and they have a very strong opinion on something, unless it’s wrong, let them include and own it. It is better to collaborate than to be perfect – to you.

Movies I really want to see right now:
- Zola
- Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince – I just haven’t seen it in a while.
- Fast and Furious 9 because it just seems like a great time
- The Harder They Fall – #yeehawagendaforeva
- Luca

My Favorite Movies to Rewatch:
- Crazy Rich Asians
- Crazy Stupid Love
- Casino Royale
- Goodfellas

Things I still need to do in Chicago:
- Visit the penguins at the Shedd
- Go see the Buckingham Fountain
- Eat at CINDY’S on the patio
- Brookfield Zoo

Songs that are giving me life right now:
- Total Praise
- Glory to the King
- Consideration (feat. SZA)
- Passionfruit
- Twerkulator

Best Grocery Store Frozen Pizzas:
- Real Good Pizza Co. Pizza with Cauliflower Crust
- California Pizza Kitchen anything
- Digorno stuffed crust anything
- I’m pretty sure I have only had it once but something is telling me to add Tombstone to this list. So…yeah, Tombstone.

Favorite things to Plan:
- Birthday Parties with silly themes
- Trips (vacation or otherwise)
- The school year for work
- My Month on a giant paper calendar so that I can see it

Calming Techniques:
- I unlocked a new breathing technique this year that, if I can concentrate, allows me to chill out instantly
- My Chill-out Playlist on Apple Music (I know, but I like how clean it looks on my phone and I don’t want to pay for Spotify right now lol)
- A quick Yoga pose or two
- Mentally packing away the bad thoughts cluttering my head

Intriguing Things:
- There are so many different streaming platforms. Why?
- Finding out a celebrity is odd on social media – How long have you been this way?
- Babies with very laid back dispositions – What are they thinking?
- My little brother is growing multiple avocado plants while other people haven’t ever gotten a seed to sprout! How does he do it?

Plants I want to grow:
- A Lemon Tree. I’m sure they smell wonderful and I like their yellow/green colorblock sitch…
- Cereus Cactus
- Peace Lillies. My mother is a master at growing these things!
- An Elephant ear plant

Places I want to visit after Quarantine:
- Mauritius
- Seychelles
- Puerto Rico
- THE MALL
- LA, so I can visit my friend’s new restaurant, Xenia.

Focus for 2021:
- Yoga every day
- Remain in concert with God
- Do well in school
- Center peace

Things I have been wanting to do but haven’t gotten around to it:
- Frame my Quarantine Art
- Nothing. Like I want to sit a whole day and do nothing. I feel like days where you can make that conscious choice are the best days…especially creatively.

Hairstyles on the Horizon:
- I need a haircut like yesterday so yeah that…
- A cute twisted rubberband halfup/halfdown style
- I will attempt to give myself Passion Twists

Bags I want next:
- Louis Vuitton NEVERFULL GM
- Large Telfar Shopping Bag in Gold or Oxblood
- Dior Book Tote – Blue Dior Oblique Embroidery
- Chiara Ferragni Big Eyelike Bag in Black or White
- Valentino Garavani Roman Stud chain bag

My Favorite Holidays in a VERY specific order:
- New Years Eve/New Years Day
- Thanksgiving (the sentiment behind it but not the holiday)
- Halloween
- Christmas Eve/Christmas Day
- Memorial Day

Things I would rather be doing than what I am currently doing:
- Laying on a Beach eating ice
- Sleeping
- Buying shoes
- Sitting in VIP at a club of my choice depending on the day – (LIV, 1 Oak, Underground, Prive, etc.)
- Reading through the Harry Potter series like it was my first time and I didn’t know JK was a disappointment

Places I wouldn’t mind living:
- Texas (Major cities only please!)
- Chicago (Downtown and neighborhoods only- miss me with the village and burb life.)
- LA (still deciding on where. The Valley? Idk)
- Atlanta (I wouldn’t mind the suburbs there. I love the topography.)

Fave Hair Products right now:
- Kinky-Curly Detangler
- Africa’s Best Hair Mayonnaise
- The comb attachment on my blow dryer

Selling Sunset Fav Rankings:
- Maya (Listen, I like the other girls but they ALL be just letting me down. I do, however, appreciate the love they have for each other; as misguided as it sometimes is.)
- but honestly 1000. The Office pups
- but really 1 Billion Trillion. Davina because, girl! She is the literal walking definition of loud and wrong. lol It’s honestly astounding.

Songs on my Auntie Playlist today:
- Back to Life – Soul II Soul
- What You Won’t Do For Love – Bobby Caldwell
- You’re Makin’ Me High – Toni Braxton
- Just My Imagination – The Temptations
- Where the Party At – Jagged Edge

Batman (please do not debate me on the merit of Batman as a super hero or anything else. Superman is weird/he sucks. I also like Iron Man. Go away):
- The Dark Knight

My fav current NBA players (for various reasons):
- Russy
- Dame
- Lou Will
- Boban
- Recent Update: Jimmy Buckets

Things I Collect (read: hoard):
- Books or journals (to read and to write in)
- Shoes
- Candles
- Random Ideas on scraps of paper and in my notes folder in my phone
- Dried Flowers

Places I need to be:
- Marrakech, Morocco
- Puglia, Italy
- Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
- Anyone’s Beach, Worldwide

The Best Fast Food French Fries IN ORDER:
- McDonalds
- Burguesa – Spicy Only
- Whataburger
- Shake Shack Cheese Fries
- In and Out Fries – Light, Animal Style ONLY

My Favorite Seasons (in order):
- Track Season
- Summer
- Volleyball Season
- The Texas State Fair
- Christmas

Books to Finish Before I Buy More:
- Crazy Rich Asians – Kevin Kwan
- Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People about Race – Reni Eddo-Lodge
- Naked Statistics – Charles Wheelan
- Beloved – Toni Morrison

Things Left to do in Miami:
- Visit Calle Ocho
- Visit Little Havana
- Eat at Joe’s Stone Crab
- More Beach
- Stay at One Miami
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